Resentment or Rebirth? The Crossroads Every Woman Faces

As I journey through perimenopause, I’ve found myself staring down a familiar reflection. The frustration, the irritability, and yes—resentment—are bubbling to the surface.

But here’s the thing: I’m not going to let this turn into self-destruction. I don’t want to repeat the patterns of frustration that I witnessed in my mother. Instead, I’m choosing rebirth. I’m choosing to release resentment and embrace the softness of self-compassion.

So, what’s the key? For me, it’s Venus—specifically, the themes of Venus in my natal chart. Venus governs how we experience love, value, and connection.

And in perimenopause, Venus invites us to reevaluate our feminine needs.

Venus doesn’t just speak to our romantic lives—it speaks to our relationship with ourselves. The love we give ourselves directly impacts our relationships with others.

✨ When we understand how our Venus sign works, we can approach these shifts with tenderness and trust—guiding us through the tough moments with deeper emotional maturity.

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Book a 1:1 Soul Purpose Reading to explore how Venus can help guide your feminine evolution, especially during this powerful life stage.